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Massage Oils and Gels

Massage oils, candles and 2-in-1 gels that glide without sticking, for relaxation and connection.

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Massage oil and gels: touch first

Massage products extend intimacy beyond the bottle, and couples massage is a good place to start. Oils and butters give a long, rich glide for full-body massage, while 2-in-1 massage and lube gels are designed for both massage and play. Some, like massage candles, warm into an oil you can pour.

The main compatibility point is latex: oils weaken latex and polyisoprene condoms, so keep them out of any plans that involve those. A 2-in-1 water-based gel is more flexible. Examples in our range include Durex Massage & Play, Lube Life Aromaplay massage oil and Playground Mood Maker.

Oils can stain, so lay down a towel. See oil and butter lubricants and our clean-up guide.

Choosing a massage product

TypeBest forCondomsClean-up
Plant oil or butterFull-body massage✗ Not with latex✗ Can stain
2-in-1 gelMassage and play✓ If labelled✓ Easier
Massage candleWarm oil, atmosphere✗ Not with latex~ Oily

Oil's effect on latex strength

Burst volume relative to control after 60 seconds

Control: 100%100%ControlMineral oil: 10%10%Mineral oil
Source: Voeller et al., Contraception, 1989 (about 90% reduction)
Good to knowTest any new oil on a small patch of skin, and avoid fragrances if your skin reacts.

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Massage oils & gels: questions

Can I use massage oil with condoms?

Not with latex or polyisoprene. Choose a water-based 2-in-1 gel instead.

What is a 2-in-1 massage gel?

A water-based gel meant for massage and as a lubricant. Check the label for condom and toy statements.

Will massage oil stain sheets?

Oils often do. Use a towel and pre-treat stains with dish soap.

Is coconut oil a good massage option?

Many people enjoy it, but it is not compatible with latex condoms.